Many parents try to avoid a true relation with their child, because they do not feel up to what the child expects from them. It
Étiquette : relationships
Yashodara : Who is Coming Back ?
When the Buddha saw his wife, Yashodara, return, the one near whom he had enjoyed all pleasures of life,he did not tremble with joy. It
When It’s Time To Retreat
To the fragility of the good relationships, imposed by a labile character, I prefer the certainty of emotional distancing. (direct version: I stop seeking contact
Conflict On Stage
For some people, pseudo-conflict is the only way to communicate they have.This can be seen, among other contexts, in the configuration of couples. It all
No Doubt
It is the apprehensiveness, the anxieties generated by my inability to dwell more deeply that I receive as feedback via the detour of others :
“Words, words…Word.”
We can never talk about anything to anyone.In order for the encounter to take place through words, it must have already been realized through the
Mind Parasites, / Unconscious Host
The wickedness that you attribute to others,the positions, the intentions, the strategies that you ascribe to them,At this moment : when they are eating you
Fleeing Fear
Outer fright aiming at population controlEchoes an inner fear, often unconscious, planted by a skillful figure, in order to maintain control over the individual. The
Zazen Responds
To the saturation of our psychological field,Zazen responds by increasing our buffer memory. To the impending smothering event, due to the rising level of water,Zazen
Leaving The Nest
I have often been suspicious of the power of subjugation that can be exercised by the man, the woman who masters the art of speaking,
Third-Person
The stumbling blocks we find through our daily lives are wonderful indicators of the polishing work which remains to be completed.Presented in such a way,
Truth Over Fraud
For many years I have tried — as you were giving away those statements coming from another world.– to back my feelings with reason,You held
Patchy Representations
The contentious status of a relation to the other is, before anything else, a relation to all conflict energies present in the relation we have
Emotional Retention
A certain form of parenthood is based on emotional retention.In the same way that informational retention can be used to maintain an upper hand on
When The Child Reached Out A Hand
Sometimes our relation to a children is grueling through the instantaneous capacity they have to hack our flow of thoughts, and steal our consciousness from
Notes & Silence 