It is interesting to note that, in order to make a complicated relationship more fluid, it is not necessary to review the behavioral architecture from top to bottom or to go through all the treatises on relational grammar.
A tiny pivoting, the precise lifting of the collapsed bridge having hitherto blocked the relationship and above all,
Above all…
Gratitude towards the other which thus enjoins us to understand that the relationship only exists as a relational dynamic and that we continuously co-create it.
The relational dynamic is the network of energy that binds us together.
Thus, a monolithic perception of our relationship to the other is a fixed form cutting us off from this network of energy, and pushing us to withdraw, to let our heart wither.
Gratitude, because, through the difficulties this relationship confronts us with, the other eventually allows life back in motion.
©FJ Dec 2022
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